One of the great questions during our "Ask Us Anything" thing this morning: "Do you guys listen to secular music? If so, whom do you listen to?"
We had about 60 seconds to talk about this. Short answers given: Nikki likes Enya, Nikki and I love U2, Pablo and I like Jack Johnson, Pablo likes DMB, Bach and Vivaldi and Handel are big with all of us, etc.
We didn't have a chance to field the usual calls on this subject, so here are the usual FAQ and answers, such as they are:
If you don't listen to purely Christian music, aren't you setting a bad example for the kids?
I think the best possible example for kids, as they grow, is for a parent to show them what discernment looks like. Early on, that might mean listening only to music that's marketed strictly to the buying public made up of church folk. Ultimately, though, I want my kids to see me making choices based on something more.
How can you say the lines between "sacred" and "secular" are blurry?
Ask most of the artists we play - they'll say the same thing. In fact, I don't know any, to my knowledge, who listen purely to CCM. Not one.
There are studio musicians who play on Christian albums who are not professing Christians. There are professing Christians who write the songs for "secular" bands. There are many "secular" artists who are professing Christians, themselves. There are people who sign Christian record deals who are very immature in their faith, or may even not really have faith at all. We can't see the heart.
I hesitate to say that a believing artist, because she's marketed by the non-CCM arm of the same record company, is "secular", ie, "not sacred." Moreover, the art itself is a gift from God. He made music. People can take His good gifts, and, for a time, twist them to ill purpose, but the gift itself remains His gift.
Let's be honest, too: The word "Christian" isn't used as an adjective in the Bible. We may often need humility when deciding, "This person's music isn't Christian, but this one's is."
Well, then, how can we make decisions about what to listen to?
Ask God for discernment. Know that it's probably foolish, for the believer, and for the sake of entertainment, to listen to something that drags you back into the way you used to be, your old self, the way you don't want to be anymore.
We want to put off the things that bind us and hold us back from being who we now are in Christ. For you, that may mean Coldplay is off limits. It really doesn't, for me. But we have different paths, and we should respect our freedom and each other.
If you listen to secular music, why work for a Christian music station?
I listen to LOTS of CCM. We play some of my favorite artists on this station. This music is wonderful. I like a lot of world music, too, like Brazilian basso nova, North African, French acoustic stuff, Caribbean music, etc. I don't think that means, either, that I can't also appreciate the stuff we play. I do, and my kids are way into it, too, taking our example.
I also work here because I'm amazed by how much good God seems to do with this radio ministry. I'm very, very thankful for this music. It STILL reaches me.
I have to say you are right on point with the standard questions and comments to why listen to just christian and not secular. I love what you say about the adjective "christian". So many times I have had this debate with fellow believers and this always shuts them up for a bit. But they always come back with "if it doesn't bring glory to God, it's not Christian"... That is a whole other debate...
This is to include your statements about teaching our children discernment. I have two very well rounded, musically eclectic children and a husband who knows just about every song, artist, and al*** from the last 30 years. He's ridiculous really... never play 80s trivial pursuit, it gets ugly!
Anywho, we have never censored (within reason and their ages) what they listen to or watch. I have other friends that have done so and that's cool. THat is their life. But do not tell me my kids are going to **** for watching Spongebob or listening to Five Finger Death punch... and yes it is as loud and obnoxious as the name, but the guitar player in my child loves it. They understand who CHrist is. They know what is right and wrong. And... here's the kicker, the understand about sharing beliefs, not commanding! wow... who would have thoughT!
So... i just wanted to post to your blog... you didn't annoy me with this today! Thanks for sharing!
So here goes--how do you NOT get angry with people who ask questions that truly depict Christians as narrow-minded and completely closed off from the real world? See, I am getting riled up as I type. Also, do people think Christians should not have fun and a sense of humor? I don't think I could do your job because I would probably fly off the handle and say something I shouldn't. I listen every day, and some of the questions people ask you are amazing--like "who gave you the right to answer these questions?" when obviously you are RUNNING A RADIO STATION (WHICH INCLUDES CONVERSATION LIKE ALL OTHER RADIO STATIONS) AND PEOPLE LISTEN BECAUSE WHAT YOU DISCUSS IS INTERESTING. If a persons' faith and salvation is determined by the type of music he or she listens to, what kind of Savior are we serving? This type of talk is precisely why folks look at Christians as judgemental, and quite frankly, as something they do not want to become. I love the show, and I hope you continue on the path you have all taken. You are setting a tone for how followers of Christ should present themselves--real, down-to earth, FUNNY, full of truth, and attractive (not in the physical way, but that you have something that others should want). Thanks
